My Top 5 Favorite Picture Books on Giving and Gratitude


Every year, when the holidays roll around, I have people asking me for holiday themed children’s books to share with their kids or classrooms. This year, I’ve decided to make it easy by compiling my Top 5 Favorite Picture Books on Giving and Gratitude just in time for Thanksgiving.

Understanding gratitude, and practicing it regularly, is something I try to be mindful of each day…and I certainly don’t always succeed. Gratitude has to be taught and practiced consistently before it can be an integral part of our daily lives. I also try to instill this idea in my own children, through practice, example, and of course and always, through stories.


“Piglet noticed that even though he had a Very Small Heart, it could hold a rather large amount of Gratitude.” A.A. Milne


#1 The Invisible Boy

A simple act of kindness can transform an invisible boy into a friend… No one ever seems to notice Brian, that is until Justin, the new kid in class, decides to include Brian in his project. Through this unlikely friendship, the once invisible Brian finds a way to shine. The Invisible Boy by Trudy Ludwig teaches readers that sometimes the most generous gift we can share, is one of attention and love.

 

#2 All the World

All the World by Liz Garton Scanlon is one of my favorite books––one that I gift to others time and time again. The sweeping illustrations by Marla Frazee follow a family as they spend a day in town amongst their neighbors while the story reminds us there are a million and one ways to give every ordinary day that we live: The tiniest shell on the beach, the warmth of a meal with others, the beauty found in human connections are all things to give and be grateful for.

 

#3 Splat Says Thank You!

Who doesn’t love a good Splat the Cat book? If you’re a fan of this wacky cat and his mouse friend Seymour, or looking for a light laughable read about giving and gratitude, then grab a copy of Splat Says Thank You! by Rob Scotton. Seymour needs cheering up and Splat has an idea: Splat has been working hard on a very special thank-you book that shows all the warmhearted and hilarious reasons Splat is thankful for Seymour and their friendship.

 

#4 Thanks a Million

If you are a poetry lover, then Thanks a Million by Nikki Grimes is the book on gratitude for you. Featuring a sixteen poems in varying formats from a haiku to a rebus riddle, Thanks a Million reminds readers how far a simple thank-you can go. Illustrations by Cozbi A. Cabrera compliment each poem in a seamless artful expression of giving and gratitude.

 

#5 The Giving Tree

And of course, a blog post on picture books about giving would be incomplete without mention of the Shel Silverstein’s, The Giving Tree. Published in 1964, this children’s classic explores the idea of selfless love, as shared between a boy and his tree. However, perhaps one of the most divisive books in children’s literature, I would be remiss not to mention the dual-nature of the tale, which also poses the question: Can selfless love be exploited? What do you think?


One Most Anticipated Picture Book of 2019 on Giving and Gratitude

What Is Given from the Heart by the late Patricia c. McKissack tells the story of James Otis and his Mama as they find ways to give despite what little they have themselves. When the Temples, neighbors and friends, lose everything in a fire, James’ church collects items the family may need. It takes James some time to figure out how he can contribute to the Temple’s “love box” when he has so little himself. The powerful tale of compassion reminds us that giving from the heart, touches the heart as well. Patricia C. McKissack is a three-time Coretta Scott King Award winner and Newbery Honor author. Some of her other notable picture books include: The Honest-to-Goodness TruthLet’s Clap, Jump, Sing & Shout; Dance, Spin & Turn It Out!, Loved Best (Ready-For-Chapters) and Goin’ Someplace Special.



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How to Write a Middle Grade Novel


Are you ready to write a Middle Grade novel? In this article we will explore the genre in order to learn which age group to target, what themes to explore, and what kind of word count you need in order to craft a strong Middle Grade book. You can walk away feeling confident you have the tools to take your ideas to paper and write your Middle Grade masterpiece.

Defining Middle Grade Novels

  • readership : 7–13 years
  • word count : between 30,000–55,000 words
  • characters ages : 9–14 years

The Golden Age of Reading

Often times Middle Grade is called the Golden Age of Reading…why? Because the genre has the largest readership of any other genre, including adults. Kids this age read, and they read a lot.

Remember, you’re spanning a diverse age group here. What may work for an 8-year-old likely won’t work for a 12-year-old. So although we bundle it all into Middle Grade, the genre actually has two sub groups. This is important to understand in order to know your audience when writing, and thus appropriately adjust your themes and word count. Plus, you’ll be able to clarify in your query to agencies when you’re ready. Otherwise, it’s all Middle Grade and it all counts.

Two Sub-Categories

  • Lower Middle Grade

Lower Middle Grade books tend to be read by kids aged 7–10 years old and have a word count on the lower end. There may be a sub plot or two, but the main plot will dominate the focus, and all themes will certainly be G-rated.

  • Upper Middle Grade

Upper Middle Grade books can have a longer word count and will be read by children aged 10–13 years old. There will likely be a subplot or two that help to carry the story in a substantial way and the themes may be a bit more complex, or PG-rated.

Why is Middle Grade so Popular

Middle Grade novels are the new rage…everyone loves them––publishers and agents are on the prowl for the next great Middle Grade book, and if you’ve got a series…even better. Let’s look at why.

Spans a diverse age group

Middle Grade readers are going from an egocentric existence to an altruistic one, so there is a huge leap from free play and imagination to an overwhelmingly rapid sense of self awareness––you are catching these readers right as the change begins. Because of these changes, these readers tend to be thirsty for knowledge and hungry for adventure, and so you have a diverse group of individuals ready to read your book.

A relatively quick read or a longer indulgence

Because of the diverse audience, you have some leeway when it comes to your length and themes (see the two sub categories above). You can target the older readers, those creeping into puberty, or the younger readers, those who are no longer into baby things but not ready to play grown up quite yet. This means you can work your themes into the age group that is most appropriate, and develop your story from there.

Series work well

Series work really well for the Middle Grade genre because the readership is so voracious at this age. Often, once readers are hooked on a character or world, they want more and more. Not only is this great for your audience, but publishers love it too. They are signing more than one book when they choose your Middle Grade series…they get three, four, maybe even more books that they know they can sell, making you as a return author low risk and all the more desirable. Think Percy Jackson or Harry Potter.

The themes are fairly innocent and approachable

That’s right…no one is kissing. Which means there’s less controversy when it comes to relationship themes. These books are easy for parents and schools to pick up and pass out. Your main character will have a bestie and maybe an innocent crush, but nothing more. You’ll be able to focus on the adventure and thrill of the story rather than the complicated rollercoaster of emotional themes you would be tackling in a YA novel. The same goes for exploring violence, big idea issues, and other themes. Let’s look at those in more detail.

Themes and What to Write About

Middle Grade novels span the compass when it comes to subjects and themes, as well as sub-genres. Fantasy, Adventure, Girls’ or Boys’ Books, Mystery, Magic Realism, even some loose Sci-Fi, you’ve got so much to work with!

Humor

Make us laugh! Kids love to laugh (heck, so do adults). But this age group in particular really connects to humor. The Diary of a Wimpy Kid Books are perfect examples, where every single page has readers laughing out loud. Age appropriate humor may be hard for us as adults to grasp, so be sure to run your jokes by your kid audience. Think over-the-top wackiness, slapstick silliness, and obvious irony while you’re developing your laugh sequence.

Romance

You’re not going to find any hot and heavy romance in any Middle Grade novels. Instead, you’ll see buddy relationships rather than romantic ones. If there is a budding romance, it will almost certainly be innocent. No one is going to kiss or go on awkward dates, and if they do, it will not be dwelled upon.

Good vs Evil

Readers of this age group are not too keen on ambiguity. You don’t need to have flat characters, but clear lines can be drawn between doing the right thing and doing what’s wrong. Plot lines that explore good and evil work well, as do good guys vs bad guys. Think of the Series of Unfortunate Events where the Baudelaire children are certainly the good guys, harassed time and again by the evil Count Olaf.

Violence

You may find some violence in some Middle Grade books, but these aren’t The Hunger Games. (Low key) violence may happen, but don’t dwell on it. You’ll be more likely to come across violence in upper Middle Grade, adventure, or fantasy books, and again, it won’t be the driving force of your plot.

Tone

Be ironic, if you must, but never cynical. Middle Grade books are not meant to push big issue ideas like politics, socio-economics, animal rights, the environment and more. All of these issues do play a role in the human experience, and by default arise in Middle Grade novels. And it is absolutely important to explore all of these big idea issues with little readers. But in the genre of Middle Grade, do it organically and do not make it the driving force of the book. Examine complex issues subtly as Scott O’Dell does in Island of the Blue Dolphins or with grace as seen in Wonder.

The Golden Rule

The important thing to remember is that these are industry standards and guidelines. Don’t give up because your fantasy upper Middle Grade novel happens to be 80,000 words or your lower Middle Grade novel stars an 11-year-old. The Golden Rule : Make sure your themes are on point. You may be able to trim word count in editing or even round out a character, but if your themes are not appropriate for the age group you’ll have a major rewrite on your hands…or a book that doesn’t work. Focus on developing a strong plot and well rounded characters––and see where your story takes you!


(Some of) My Favorite Middle Grade Books


Hoot
The Girl Who Drank the Moon
Wonder at the Edge of the World
The Ethan I Was Before
Number the Stars
Serafina and the Black Cloak
Willa of the Wood
Walk Two Moons

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 




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Favorite Books and Recommended Reads

I do a lot of reading and the list keeps getting longer and longer, but there are some books that have really stayed with me over the years, and you can find them here.

I continue to update this list from time to time, so be sure to check back.

On Writing

Steering the Craft: A Twenty-First-Century Guide to Sailing the Sea of Story

Writing Down the Bones: Freeing the Writer Within

Young Adult

The Book of Dust: La Belle Sauvage (Book of Dust, Volume 1)

His Dark Materials (Books 1–3)

Brown Girl Dreaming

Middle Grade

Serafina and the Black Cloak (Book 1)

Serafina and the Twisted Staff (Book 2)

Serafina and the Splintered Heart (Book 3)

The Girl Who Drank the Moon

Willa of the Wood

A Snicker of Magic

Ban This Book

Ruby Holler

The Spirit of Cattail County

Hurricane Child

Shadow Weaver

Chapter Books

From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler

Inside Out and Back Again

The Little Prince

Fortunately, the Milk

Everything on a Waffle

Picture Books

The Fantastic Flying Books of Mr. Morris Lessmore

All the World Happy Birthday to You!

Non-Traditional Picture Books

Tibet Through the Red Box

The Stinky Cheese Man and Other Fairly Stupid Tales

Board Books

Big Red Barn

Belly Button Book

Sheep in a Jeep

But Not the Hippopotamus

Non-Fiction

Transformations of Myth Through Time

Words Are My Matter: Writings About Life and Books

An Open Life by Joseph Campbell

Novels and Stories

Jitterbug Perfume

The Sun Also Rises

Summer Crossing

Dandelion Wine

Fantasy and Sci-Fi

Station Eleven

All Our Wrong Todays: A Novel

Have Spacesuit Will Travel

Collections 

Fearless Girls, Wise Women & Beloved Sisters: Heroines in Folktales from Around the World